This bride discovered that her fiancé had gone behind her back and canceled the vegan meals she had ordered. This put the couple in a dicey situation, put marriage plans in doubt, and led the bride to rethink the engagement.
In an update just posted, the original poster has returned to share with readers that she had decided to break off the engagement entirely and leave her fiancé.
The original thread was posted to Reddit’s r/AITA (Am I the A-Hole) subreddit by u/SarahJake2022, who initially posted the topic to see if she was in the wrong for her reaction to learning that her fiancé had canceled the vegan dishes that she had organized for her family. Worth noting here that the bride has multiple family members who are vegan, and her family is paying for the catering service.
Readers were forthcoming with their feelings on the subject and clearly showed how they felt about the fiancé. Many users advised her to call off the wedding and leave her fiancé.
“NTA, and for the love of god, don’t marry this man,” advised user yourlittlebridie.
“NTA, unless you marry him,” said Desert Sea 4998. “He showed you who he is. Believe him.”
“Definitely NTA,” said Constant-Apartment08. “Not only are you the one paying for the food, but a wedding is something you plan as a couple. He felt like your and your family’s well-being during the catering wasn’t as important as his.”
Screenshots of the original thread and reactions start with items #1-11, with the update thread starting at item #12.